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Let's party, gracefully
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Not going to a party is as much a social sin as showing up and looking up abjectly miserable
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LEARN TO CONVERSE: Talk about topics that interest others. PHOTO: K. ANANTHAN
Business interactions are no longer confined to the glass-and-steel edifices of the offices. After office hours, get-togethers are the norm and filled with business-cum-social scenarios. The focus is on unwinding from the stress and grind, as well as developing one's social circle. When you are invited to one of these gatherings, there are certain dos and don'ts you need to keep in mind.
Any unsavoury, eyebrow-raising incident will remain strong and fresh in the minds of everyone who were present and reach the ears of those were not..
From the list below, check the ones you are guilty of. Stop, desist and change the behaviour immediately; in all kindness to yourself and your career, because negative perceptions pop up when crucial decisions are being made for and about you.
Drinking too much: Drinking too much and losing control over your behaviour tops the list. You might think that everybody is letting his or her hair down and having a good time and it will not be noticed. Your slurred speech, glazed eyes and unsteady body language are all dead give-aways.
Talk shop: Don't be a bore. Relax, enjoy, have a conversation about topics that are of interest. Come across as an intelligent, thoughtful, well read person. You can score great points with this.
Dress code: You want to wear your favourite T-shirt and sandals? Well, and good. But are you wearing clothes that befit the occasion? A funky look could be cool but not for a business party, unless the dress code specifies that. Clothes make people — they are part of the impression you are creating about yourself. Choose appropriately.
Make your presence known to your host, boss, colleagues and subordinates. Be personable and approachable. Don't forget your graceful thanks and complimentary sentences.
Finally, don't work against yourself. Now sit and examine if you are guilty of any of the above mentioned don'ts.
Be honest with yourself and change your behaviour. You owe it to yourself.
CHITRA S. DANGER
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