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Love in the time of SMS
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No more furtive glances and writing letters in blood. Life is getting easier for those in love, thanks to mobile phones. But then, what is love without its perils?
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The story is the same, but the rules have changed. Not so long ago, couples treasured letters in ink and even in blood, a token of their momentary madness. Today, chances are that if you send a snail mail to your girl, you run the risk of being mistaken for a relic.
Relationships now are ruled, regulated and ruined by the cellphone. Dating youngsters swear by it. They wake up to a ringtone and doze off with it and thank Cupid for being in love at a time when these gadgets rule. For, being in love was never more economical.
"My relationship centred around the mobile phone. It was my birthday gift to my girlfriend," says Mayank, 26, executive in a telecom firm, who married his girlfriend after a year of courtship.
"I messaged her every morning, made sure she woke up to something nice," he says.
Playing cupid
Since these devices play Cupid, dating couples show competitive levels of knowledge about the schemes each mobile service provider offers. They compare the offers and go by those offering the maximum free-talk time. This seems to work, especially in long distance relationships.
"The Reliance to Reliance unlimited STD offer came as a blessing in disguise for us," says Sanjana, a journalist, whose boyfriend is in Delhi.
"Earlier, we spent hours talking over the phone and later hours fighting when the bills came. But things are much easier now. I maintain two connections and suddenly distance doesn't seem to matter much. But strangely, since our relationship thrived over the phone, we are at a loss for words when we meet," she adds.
Mayank agrees. "We have put to maximum use all the facilities provided. There was no opposition to our relationship, but even then, talking to her for hours together at night was not encouraged. That's where the cellphone came in handy. At times, I got calls from the operator saying I have overused the scheme. But it was romance without hurting the pocket."
But it is not altogether a rosy picture. Certain smitten ones still going through their motions in college are tottering on the verge of bankruptcy. "Earlier, I had a pre-paid connection and ended up recharging it everyday. Later, I switched over to post-paid and availed a demo SIM which allowed 24 hours free talk time with numbers serviced by the same provider," says Preethi, a student.
For Ranjini, a management student, the cellphone brings in a flood of memories. "We met over the Internet and our relationship flourished through the mobile. We never met. He proposed over the phone and we ultimately broke up because of the cell phone," she recollects.
"Since maintaining a pre-paid card became impossible, I took a post-paid one without my parents' knowledge. In effect, I maintained two connections and every 15 days my connection would be snapped since I overshot the credit limit," recalls Ranjini. Her love story came to a premature end during a visit home. "The incessant beeps of the phone and the flashing of the same name made my brother suspicious and that was the end of it. Eventually, I called it off, that too over the phone," she adds.
If you thought cellphones were an easy way to deal with prying family members, doing away with the agony of hovering around the land phone with the family around, Ranjini disagrees. "If you don't have privacy, even cellphones are not of much help."
ANIMA BALAKRISHNAN
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