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The `woo' factor

Most men don't know how to woo their woman

First of all, to all those women that mailed me about my last article... thank you for in true feminine form you'll rose to battle... and for that I laugh and thank you... because that is the cutest thing in the world and something that only women can do so adorably. And since we're on the subject... this article is directed towards you as well... only that this is for all the men... those romantics, and those that would claim to move mountains for the ones that they love or like.

Only there's a problem... you see men don't know how to woo... few have learned, but mostly men will just blindly copy romantic dialogues from movies, or song lyrics from songs that they know you like or even ideas from books on how to make a moment special. So this is for all those men that put bikes and cars first (which would account for 99% of our kind).

Now I'm not going to tell you how to go after someone you just like... and would someday want to go out with... because that would be like pouring baby food on a rock... I've tried it before and the rock doesn't grow, or like it for that matter. So if you like a girl in your class, or wherever then get off that large behind and do something about it... or watch in jealousy as someone else does. But if you already have someone and you want to make her know that she is the most important thing in your life (even for the moment), then listen and learn if you want to. Because chances are that this will elude you just as math did in school.

My father once told me something that I follow to this very day... he said that if you love a woman then treat her like the stars... but if you want to show her how much then make her feel like a goddess. And that's exactly what you've got to do... start with words, because nothing else will make a bigger impact (simply because women listen).

Give her a name... and not a short form of her real name that sounds merely cute but a real nickname, which would be just yours to call. Tell her that she's your goddess... your angel... your ladoo... something that is not used so far because you've taken the rights. Make loving her a routine... like a poem every month, or a letter perhaps on a particular day so that every month she'll know you'd proclaim your love over and over again. Hold her hand and never let go... tell her that it's because you'd die if she were but one foot away from you.

Listen don't talk sometimes and when you do talk then tell her that she's better than all the problems she has... be mature (if you're not then learn). Women need this but more importantly you need to do this for them. Wait for her no matter what and I promise that she'll look at you with a glow that only women do. So go on be a romantic... be a perfect man. For Vin... who's point is well noted.

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