Just what it means to be in the armed forces

AN OFFICER and a gentleman as a phrase has become synonymous with life in the armed forces. A career in the armed forces means the honour of serving one's country, facing challenges, the pain of living away from loved ones for long stretches of time but at the same time having an opportunity to travel, substantial pay and perks and a stylish lifestyle. It's a culture that's different, slightly insular and still carrying a little of the British hangover.

As an officer

From the day one you are commissioned as an officer, you enter a brotherhood that stays with you all your life. It could be the brotherhood of a regiment, a ship or a squadron; it is one that's been shaped by time and tradition.

Leadership challenges

An officer is a leader of his men and has to lead from the front. He sets the standards of professional excellence. His men should look up to him and his peers should be proud of him. He inspires confidence and trust in his subordinates.

Positive thinking is an asset that can help an officer in times of strife and during times when one is away from the family. As an officer it is imperative that you don't get bogged down by despondency and despair however bleak the situation may seem.

Try and try again

Aim for the moon and you would at least end up with some stars, might as well be an officer's motto. You cannot be a quitter.

Discipline

The strict code of discipline in all the armed forces demands an unquestioned obedience to the State. They also do not have the kind of rights like the trade unions enjoy. It means subjugating oneself to the just, though severe military law. One has the right to vote but not to political activity of any kind. Personal liberty is slightly curtailed and a certain conformity in lifestyle is expected. This may irritate some but this conformity comes from an unwritten code of dress and behavior that are seen to contribute to discipline and build team spirit.Physical fitness

The rigorous training that an officer has to undergo right at the outset of his career and through most of his serving years demand a high degree of physical fitness, agility and alertness.

Responsibility

The responsibility of his men, material and unit lies with an officer and their welfare is his prime concern.

Values

Life in the Forces demands you to have the utmost respect for Service values - loyalty, commitment, discipline and the right team spirit.

Comfort or lack of it

Comfort definitely is low on the list of priority. This does not necessarily mean that an officer should not aspire for a comfortable lifestyle. Only that many a time you get postings which are not too conducive for family life or for any kind of lifestyle at all.

As a gentleman

Respect women and family values: An unspoken code of chivalry and dignity that will not let him stoop to anything mean. Respect other people's rights for whatever it is worth.

Impeccable social graces

Uncompromising principles and strong character. No room for corrupt values. Honour and dignity.

Social adaptability

Whatever your background or upbringing, the services norm expect you adapt to its code of a secular social structure. A change to be made gracefully.

Grooming

Right from day one of joining you are taught to be just with your subordinates. This is essential for a sense of camaraderie to exist between each other.

The armed forces is not just a job, it's a way of life.

Paddy Jagannadham

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